Best ways to masturbate

Well, first know that it's okay to simply ask for some Me Time, as long as you're dealing with a mature, respectful partner. In fact, during a recent episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, sexologist and host Emily Morse, PhD , pointed out that being that up-front about your needs and desires is healthy for your relationship in the long run. Those tips are indeed super-helpful But what if you're staying at home with a whole bunch of roommates, with whom you don't feel the need to be so forthright? What if you're stuck in your childhood home along with your entire biological family? And whereas some childless couples might have more time to embellish their foreplay , others are stuck in homeschooling hell—what should you do in that case?

Our team has over a decade of experience in the sexual wellness field and are experts i Hands on, practical experience — this is our expertise. We may think we live in a sexually liberal society. In many ways we do. The awkwardness will surely ensue. Behind all the huffing and puffing, there are some confused guys out there.

Think about it. You likely talk to your friends about your sex life with partners more than self-love. We interviewed 14 anonymous women on exactly how they orgasm alone and all their techniques are pretty unique. Try some of them out for yourself and see if you stumble upon a game-changing tip. But dry humping can actually be ubes-pleasurable for women at any age.

Masturbate, of course! The fact that it feels phenom is reason enough to get down with your bad self. I know what you're thinking: duh! But if you're looking to avoid pregnancy or eliminate your risk of STIs, masturbation is the way to go, says Wendasha Jenkins Hall , PhD, a sex educator and researcher.