Girls and men using sex toys

On the most recent episode of People Who Just Had Sex, I interviewed a dominatrix named Samantha and her longterm boyfriend about bondage, love-making and masturbation. But why is that? Also, some have felt threatened by my wanting to use a vibrator during sex. VICE: So, is it true?

From Japanese Tenga silicone masturbators to vibrating cock rings, there are a plethora of fun, male-oriented sex toys that couples can use together. I spoke to five women who have experimented with male sex toys about how and why they enjoying using them with their partners. This opens the door to thinking about sex as more than just intercourse, but as a true form of erotic play. If I can be in control of that, I'm all for it! As male toys became more accessible, we began to incorporate them more. Still feeling a little antsy about getting started?

I am extremely open about my masturbation habits. My 8-speed Hitachi wand lays dutifully plugged in by my bed, for use at any moment's notice. I hide it from neither my friends or my sexual partners. During sex, I often need to use a vibrator to reach climax. Most of my partners have been very accepting of this — offering to switch positions or go slower to accommodate the vibrator's presence.

A lot of women enjoy sex more with a little help from a sex toy for clitoral stimulation, but there can be a cultural stigma against it, as if your partner shouldn't need a sex toy to get you off. In this week's Sex Talk Realness , Cosmopolitan. Man A: Thirty-two.